Swingers Rules & FAQs— For Swing Lifestyle Events
Frequently Asked Questions
Welcome to Teddy Bare Picnic’s Swingers Rules & FAQ – your essential guide for all things lifestyle, open relationships and the swinging lifestyle.
Whether you’re new to the scene or a returning guest, these FAQs will answer your most common questions about swinging.
If you still have questions after reading, don’t hesitate to reach out to us directly!
Event Basics: The Ground Rules
What is the Teddy Bare Picnic?
Teddy Bare Picnic is an inclusive, body-positive swinging lifestyle event welcoming open-minded couples (some who are in open relationships) and singles who want to have a great time, meet new people, and explore the lifestyle in a safe, comfortable environment.
Who can attend Teddy Bare Picnic events?
Our events are open to adult couples and single females (21+). Respectful behavior and consent are mandatory for all attendees.
Do I have to participate in anything I’m uncomfortable with?
Absolutely not! Participation is always by choice. Consent is our top priority—no means no, and everyone sets their own boundaries.
Can single men or single women attend?
Couples and single females are welcome. Single men are NOT allowed.
Swingers Rules, Privacy, and Safety
What are the swingers rules at Teddy Bare Picnic events?
We focus on fun and respect! Key rules include:
– Always ask before touching or approaching someone intimately.
– No means no—consent is essential.
– No photos or videos are allowed without explicit prior consent.
– Maintain discretion outside event spaces; respect everyone’s privacy.
– Abusive, aggressive, or intoxicated behavior will result in removal.
How do you protect attendees’ privacy?
All attendees’ identities and personal details are kept strictly confidential. We do not allow unauthorized photography or sharing of guest information. Discretion is essential to our community.
Are the events safe?
We do our utmost to create a secure venue. All guests and staff agree to a code of conduct including no means no, respect, and safe sex; inappropriate behavior is not tolerated.
Are there any activities for those who just want to socialize?
Absolutely. Many guests come to enjoy the company, music, and atmosphere—participation in intimacy is never required.
What to Bring & Wear
What should I bring to a Teddy Bare Picnic?
Essentials include:
– Photo ID (for age verification)
– Themed or sexy attire for parties and dance nights
– Towels, blankets, and personal hygiene items
– BYOB (if applicable)
– Sun protection and bug spray for outdoor events
What should I wear? What is the dress code?
Dress codes vary by event but fun, sexy, theme-appropriate attire is always encouraged! You can dress as bold or as reserved as you’re comfortable with. Some locations are clothing optional—nudity or lingerie is welcome in designated spaces.
Event Details & Amenities
Are your events clothing-optional or nude?
Many Teddy Bare Picnic events are clothing-optional, and full nudity is permitted and welcomed in designated areas. All participants can choose their own comfort level.
What if I’m new and nervous?
That’s completely normal! Our community is friendly, supportive, and inclusive. We suggest introducing yourselves, having conversations first, respecting your limits, and paying attention to the ground rules. If you have questions, our hosts are always available to help.
Is this a sex party?
Our events are about fun, connection, and exploration—while intimacy can happen including full swap, it’s not a requirement and never pressured. Many guests simply dance, socialize, and enjoy the open-minded atmosphere at a swinger party, while others enjoy taking part in naughty fun and safe sex. Use designated adult play areas to ensure privacy and discretion.
Booking, Pricing, and Memberships
How do I sign up or RSVP?
Visit our booking or events page to register. Events fill up quickly—book early to avoid missing out!
What are the event fees?
Fees vary depending on the type of event, amenities, and whether you’re a couple or single female. All prices are clearly listed during registration.
Do you offer memberships or discounts?
We offer loyalty discounts for returning guests and group registrations; check our website or ask staff for current offers.
Swinger Etiquette, Consent, and Connections
How do we approach another couples if interested?
It is important to follow swinger etiquette, as well as rules & boundaries at swingers events. Approach with respect and honesty—introduce yourself, be polite, and never assume interest. Always ask permission and accept a “no” with grace. Avoid communication issues by being clear and honest in your requests.
What if I see someone I know from outside the lifestyle?
Discretion is key—what happens at Teddy Bare stays at Teddy Bare! All guests agree to a privacy-first approach.
Can we bring toys or supplies?
Yes! Toys, costumes, and other fun accessories are encouraged—but please use items safely and clean up afterwards.
Can I leave the event early or come back later?
Yes, you’re free to come and go as needed, but re-entry rules may vary by venue or event type. Check with staff at check-in. You must have your event wristband intact to re-enter.
Can I drink alcohol at a swinging party?
Yes, but be sure to limit yourself and maintain a sober and aware state.
More Swingers Rules & FAQS
What does full swap mean?
In the lifestyle community, ‘full swap’ typically refers to a situation where couples engage in sexual activities with other couples, swapping partners completely. This means that each partner is open to having sexual interactions with the other couple’s partner, as opposed to ‘soft swap,’ where couples may engage in sexual activities together without full penetration or swapping partners.
What happens at swinger clubs, sex clubs or a swinger party?
At swinger clubs, sex clubs, or swinger parties, attendees can expect a variety of activities centered around adult socializing and erotic exploration. Here are some common elements:
Social Interaction
Guests can mingle, meet new people, and form connections with other couples or singles in a relaxed environment.
Themed Events
Many clubs host themed nights or parties, encouraging attendees to dress according to a specific theme, which adds to the fun and atmosphere.
Designated Play Areas
Most swinger clubs have areas specifically set aside for intimate activities, allowing couples to engage in sexual encounters with each other or with other consenting couples in a private setting.
Consent and Respect
A strong emphasis is placed on consent, and attendees are expected to respect each other’s boundaries. Communication is key to ensuring everyone feels comfortable.
Variety and Activities
Depending on the event, there might be workshops, demonstrations, or entertainment, as well as areas for dancing and socializing.
Dress Code
Many swinger events have specific dress codes, ranging from casual to fetish wear, to encourage a playful and erotic atmosphere. Overall, the focus is on creating a safe and enjoyable environment for adults to explore their sexuality and connect with like-minded individuals.
What is a play partner?
A play partner is usually defined within the BDSM community, but can also be used in the swinging community. If you are playing with kink, which includes activities like rope play, rough play, and other Safe, Sane and Consensual activities, be sure to use a safe word and use safe sex practices.
How do you avoid sexually transmitted infections?
Always use barrier protection, like condoms, gloves or dental dams during vaginal, oral or anal sex, or anytime body fluids are being exchanged. Follow safe sex practices,
What is ethical non-monogamy?
Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) refers to relationship structures in which all partners consensually agree to engage in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple people. ENM emphasizes transparency, communication, and consent among all parties involved, ensuring that everyone is aware of and agrees to the terms of these relationships.
Consensual nonmonogamy or ethical non-monogamy includes anything that is a non-monogamous activity between couples and polyamory partners, within the swinger community, as well as outside of it.
This can include various forms such as polyamory, swinging, open relationships, and other arrangements where individuals seek connections beyond traditional monogamous partnerships. The key aspect of ENM is that it is consensual and ethical, meaning that all participants are fully informed and agree to the dynamics of the relationships.
Can I ask event staff for help or support?
100%! Our staff are trained to assist, guide, and support you at any time. Your comfort and safety are our primary concern.
How do I get more information?
For additional details, visit our website TabotaEvents.com, join our newsletter, or reach out via our Contact Us page. No question is too small—just ask!
If you have a question not answered here, please get in touch by emailing us at info@xhotfun.com and we’ll get back to you as soon as we’re able, usually within 24-48 hrs.!
We look forward to welcoming you to Teddy Bare Picnic and the TABOTA community.
