Curious about the swinger lifestyle and open relationships or what really happens at a swinger party or event? Welcome to Teddy Bare Picnic—a place where excitement, new experiences, and unforgettable connections come together in a safe, welcoming environment.
Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or just starting to explore local mixers, Teddy Bare Picnic offers unique amenities and a vibrant, judgment-free space designed with your comfort and enjoyment in mind.
What is Swinging? Understanding the Lifestyle
Swinging, also known as the swing lifestyle, is all about consensual adults exploring open relationships and intimacy beyond traditional boundaries. Unlike common misconceptions, swinging is not just about indiscriminate encounters—it’s about mutual respect, open communication, and shared excitement. Many people are drawn to the lifestyle for various reasons: to spark up their relationships, meet like-minded friends, or simply enjoy a space where they can be themselves without judgment. At its heart, swinging is about freedom, fun, and fostering genuine connections.
While many swingers enjoy going to swinger clubs and sex clubs to find other like-minded adults, TBP and Tabota Events offer unique alternative to the swinging world, for those into ethical non-monogamy.
Common Activities—What Happens at a Swingers Event?
So, what do swingers do at gatherings like Teddy Bare Picnic? While many people think that swingers events are all about key parties, every event within the swinger community is a little different. Most are centered around socializing, hanging out in the hot tub, themed parties, games, and curated spaces for intimacy.
In the swinging world, you might find ice-breaker games, dance floors, and cozy lounge areas where conversations flow.
Swingers Etiquette – Rules and Expectations
One of the biggest myths about the swinger lifestyle is the lack of rules—when in reality, etiquette is crucial to consensual nonmonogamy. Respect is non-negotiable, and consent guides every interaction. Common swinger rules include: “No means no,” always ask before joining in, and never assume.
What to Wear to a Swingers Event
Elegant lingerie, cocktail party outfits, comfy camping clothes, or even themed costumes are common. Remember, the goal is to have fun and express yourself (even during acrobatic sex positions!)—while always respecting dress code guidelines that maintain the event’s unique vibe.
What do you do at a swingers club or swingers event? The Unique Amenities at Teddy Bare Picnic
While TBP is not a swingers club officially, our amenities are designed to create a one-of-a-kind event, ensuring every guest feels pampered and secure:
Swimming
The resort is nestled around a sandy beach and lake, which is clothing optional. Many people bring blow up floaties or rafts to hang out on the water on.
Bring a chair with you, as there is no seating available on the beach. Also good to bring along: a drink (or a whole cooler!), a towel, sunscreen, and a hat or umbrella. Pack a snack to keep your energy up! Maybe even enough to share. Nothing breaks the ice like sharing a delicious snack with others.
Bathing and Washrooms
There are washrooms with flush toilets in the main building. The shower room on the main floor has a bank of toilets, and there is another washroom without showers upstairs near the sign in desk.
We also have 3 outdoor heated showers that are quite popular. The showers are one huge open tiled room with several shower heads. Bring your own soap, shampoo, shaving gear, and towels.
Hotel Rooms
There are a few rooms (maybe a dozen) in the main building to rent, but these are usually booked right away for the following year. You *may* get lucky last minute, but don’t count on it. The rooms are basic and have a bed and private washrooms, as well as a mini-fridge for your convenience.
Camping, Glamping and RVs
There are no designated campsites, just large grassy areas. We ask those in RV’s to park on the lower areas so those in tents can set up on the hill in case of rain. Because we are getting busier and busier each year, expect that you will set up right next to someone else, and often sharing common space. But that’s half the fun at Teddy Bare Picnic: partying with and getting to know other couples.
Many couples enjoy ‘Glamping’; that is, setting up camp in a glamorous way, including decorating and creating a fun, playful atmosphere.
Couples Play Room
We set up a huge tent for our playroom, including many beds, massage tables and a couple of hot tubs. Bring your toy bag, favorite condoms, and lube, and enjoy playing in a large area shared by other sexy couples.
Sexy Lube Pit
The Lube Pit is like a big bouncy castle. We add plenty of slippery stuff to create a sensual experience for all. Bring a towel to clean off your face after, and a pair of swim goggles isn’t a bad idea!
Adult Foam Pit Party
The Foam pit is a HUGE draw! And it’s Huge!! We set this up near the stage and many couples end up in it, flirting, making out and dancing with others late into the night. With its mesh floor, it’s safe to walk around inside. Those goggles from the lube pit? Also a good idea here!
Restaurant: On-site Food & Beverage
If you really don’t want to bother with packing and cooking meals while at TBP (and we understand completely!!) there is a restaurant on site for your convenience! Order a la carte as your appetite dictates. Sit on their deck and enjoy a cold one while you watch the parade of sexy bodies wander past.
FAQs About Swinging
How do you become a swinger?
Start by joining swinger sites like TangledBodies.com to meet online couples in your area. You can also attending social events, local mixers, talking to experienced guests, and being clear about your boundaries and desires.
What does full swap and soft swap mean in the swinging lifestyle?
In the swing lifestyle, “full swap” refers to a situation where both partners in a couple agree to engage in sexual activities with other couples. This means that each partner is open to having sexual experiences with someone other than their primary partner, often in a consensual and respectful manner. It’s important for couples to communicate their boundaries and comfort levels before engaging in full swapping, as consent is a fundamental aspect of the lifestyle.
“Soft swap” refers to a scenario in the swinging lifestyle where couples engage in sexual activities with other couples, but do not have full sexual intercourse with each other’s partners. This can include activities like kissing, fondling, or oral sex, while still maintaining the primary couple’s sexual exclusivity. It’s a way for couples to explore their boundaries and enhance their experiences together without fully crossing into full swapping.
What about safe sex practices at these events to avoid sexually transmitted infections?
At TABOTA events, safe sex practices are highly encouraged to promote health and well-being among all attendees. Here are some ground rules safer sex practices to avoid STI transmissions:
- Bring Barrier Protection: Make sure to bring your own protection like condoms, dental dams, and any other protective items you may need. Condoms should always be used, especially for anal sex.
- Open Communication: Discuss boundaries and safe sex practices with your partner and any potential play partners.
- Consent is Key: TBP is all about consensual recreational sex, for all participants. Always obtain consent before engaging in any sexual activities, and respect the comfort levels of all parties involved. Touching someone intimately without asking is considered sexual assault and will not be tolerated. so abide by respectful consent practices.
- Regular Health Check-ups: It’s a good idea for sexually active individuals to have regular check-ups for STD test results to maintain sexual health and avoid STI and HIV transmission.
- Respect and Responsibility: Attendees should be respectful of each other’s boundaries and prioritize safety during all intimate encounters.
What do Upside-down pineapples mean?
In the swinging and lifestyle community, an upside-down pineapple is often used as a symbol to indicate that a person or couple is open to swinging or alternative lifestyle activities. It’s a playful (discreet) way for swingers to identify themselves to others.
What do Garden gnomes and Pink flamingos mean in the lifestyle community?
In the lifestyle community, garden gnomes, like white landscaping rocks, are often used as a playful symbol to represent couples who are open to swinging or alternative lifestyle activities.
Pink flamingos are often used as a playful symbol to indicate that a couple is open to swinging or alternative lifestyle activities.
What do White landscaping rocks signify?
In the lifestyle community, white landscaping rocks refer to a playful and discreet signal that indicates a couple is open to engaging in swinging or alternative lifestyle activities.
What do Pampas grass fronds mean?
In the lifestyle community, displaying pampas grass fronds, serves as a playful signal to other couples that they are friendly and welcoming to those in the lifestyle.
Do swingers enjoy BDSM rough play, rope play and other kinky fun?
Yes, many swingers and couples in the lifestyle do enjoy BDSM and other forms of kink.
What is Unicorn hunting?
Unicorn hunting refers to the practice where couples seek a single woman (often referred to as a “unicorn”) to join them for sexual experiences. The term “unicorn” is used because these women are perceived as rare and desirable within the swinging or polyamorous community. Couples may look for a unicorn to enhance their intimate experiences, but it’s essential for all parties involved to communicate openly about boundaries, expectations, and consent to ensure a positive experience for everyone.
What is a Unicorn poacher?
A “unicorn poacher” refers to a couple who seeks to engage single women (often called “unicorns”) for sexual encounters or relationships, but may do so in a way that manipulates or pressures the woman into joining them. This term typically has a negative connotation, implying that the couple may not prioritize the unicorn’s feelings or boundaries, and instead treat her as a means to fulfill their desires without genuine care for her well-being. It’s important in the lifestyle community to approach all interactions with respect, consensual nonmonogamy, and clear communication to avoid such negative dynamics.
Do vanilla couples go to swingers events?
Yes, vanilla couples (those who do not typically engage in swinging or alternative lifestyle activities) can attend swingers events if they are open-minded and curious about exploring their sexuality or simply want to socialize in a fun, accepting environment. It’s important for vanilla couples to have a sex-positive outlook and communicate their boundaries and intentions clearly with each other and with others at the event to ensure a comfortable experience.
Do you have a massage parlor onsite?
The TABOTA events and Sandy Bottoms Resort do not have a massage parlor on site. However, many events offer various activities and workshops that may include couples’ massages or sensual touch workshops.
What if I experience erectile dysfunction?
If you experience erectile dysfunction at a consensual nonmonogamy lifestyle event, it’s important to remember that many attendees are there to have fun and connect with others, and there’s no pressure to engage in sexual activities if you’re not feeling comfortable.
What is a size queen?
A “size queen” is a colloquial term used to describe someone, typically a woman, who has a strong preference for larger-than-average male genitalia.
What is a pillow princess?
A “pillow princess” is a term often used in the LGBTQ+ community, particularly among women, to describe someone who prefers to be on the receiving end of sexual activities without actively participating in giving pleasure to their partner.
What does Wanking dead mean?
“Wanking dead” is a term that can refer to the act of masturbating while being in a state of extreme relaxation or even sleepiness, often leading to a less intense experience.
How to avoid communication barriers?
To avoid communication barriers, especially in the context of lifestyle events or relationships, consider these tips:
- Open and Honest Dialogue.
- Active Listening.
- Use Clear Language.
- Be aware of body language and non-verbal signals.
- Check for Understanding.
- Create a Comfort Zone.
- Practice Empathy.
- Set Boundaries.
Does Tabota Events offer a swingers cruise?
Currently, TABOTA Events does not list any swingers cruises among their offerings. They primarily focus on land-based events like hotel takeovers and outdoor festivals. But, you never know! This could be an option sometime in the future for a unique event.
Why Choose Teddy Bare Picnic?
Ready to experience the swing lifestyle in a fun, safe, and friendly setting? Teddy Bare Picnic stands out thanks to our exceptional amenities (hot tubs anyone?), conscious community spirit, and unique, playful approach to consensual nonmonogamy at every event.
Whether you’re looking to meet new friends or simply discover what swingers do, Teddy Bare Picnic is the perfect place to start your journey.
Book now and see just how amazing the lifestyle can be!
